Read to the Tummy and Its Owner
Over the course of the pregnancy it may become increasingly difficult for her to find a comfortable sleeping position. Buy an anthology of stories or poems, and read her something each night before bed. It will distract her from being uncomfortable and prepare you for becoming a nightly storyteller.
Foot Massage
While she’s taking a minute to sit down for the evening, take her foot and give it a good massage. Get some foot lotion and really work it in. This is sure to relax her and help the baby relax at the same time.
Clean Up
Wait until she’s out one afternoon, and give the house a serious once-over. It means vacuuming along the edges, scouring the oven and, yes, mopping the floors. If you think this is pampering the house instead of her, watch the reaction on her face.
A Little Pillow Talk Goes a Long Way
Pregnant women are advised to sleep on their sides. Many find it more comfortable while in this position to hold a pillow against their stomachs. Go out and buy her a nice down-filled pillow from a local department store (it shouldn’t cost more than $50). Write “Pregnancy Sleep Aid” on the package, and leave it on the bed for her to find. Just understand that you’ll have farther to reach in the spoon position.
Step, Kick, Step…
Since confirming the great news, your wife has probably adopted a regular exercise routine such as yoga or water aerobics. Her happiness during pregnancy is largely a matter of simple togetherness. The more ways you can share the experience with her, the better.
Show Her Courting Doesn’t End with Marriage
Write her a short love letter. Make it something fun, like a poem about her toes, a list of your 20 favorite things about her. Mail the letter to your own address along with a small gift: a new lipstick or tickets to a movie that weekend. The combination of silliness and romance is a surefire winner.
Contribute to Her New Wardrobe
No matter how many pants with expandable pouches she finds, nothing can ever be cuddlier than your clothes. Sneak a pair of your old sweatpants to work. Cut out the name of any maternity store from a magazine or newspaper ad, and paste it on a plain gift box. On a small card write: “For your maternity collection – hardly used!” or “So comfortable you’ll think they’ve already been worn!” Bring the wrapped gift home from work as though you bought it that day. (Tip: Wash the sweatpants first.)
Get a His and Hers
A manicure alone isn’t too creative. Yet she’ll enjoy hers twice as much if you get one too. Women love it when their husbands are secure enough to enjoy doing girl stuff. Don’t feel bad if you start looking forward to your next manicure right away.
Become a Gourmet Chef
The most important thing to her is that you put effort into it. She doesn’t care about the result. Your meal can be simple – a candlelight dinner with mac ‘n’ cheese is still romantic.